Where these numbers come from
The official RDA of 0.8 g per kg (about 0.36 g per lb) is the minimum to prevent deficiency in mostly sedentary adults. Research on active people supports more. The International Society of Sports Nutrition recommends 1.4–2.0 g/kg for people who exercise, with higher intakes helpful while dieting to preserve muscle. Older adults benefit from at least 1.0–1.2 g/kg to slow age-related muscle loss.
Spreading it out
Your body uses protein best when it's spread across the day. Aim for 3–5 meals with roughly 0.3–0.4 g/kg each (about 25–40 g for most people), including some within a few hours after training.
Is too much protein harmful?
For healthy people, intakes up to around 2.2 g/kg have not been shown to cause harm. If you have kidney disease, your needs are different, so follow your doctor's advice.